What is the definition of Beautiful?
>> Friday, November 12, 2010
Why do people always mention skinny, tall, long legs, banging body type of girls? I am tired of people referring skinny girls as beautiful. What about the ones that are not skinny and is average or over weight? What makes skinny girls so much better? I wish everyone can accept the fact that everyone is beautiful in their own ways. Yes I know that i have written a blog post about this but this topic is slightly more different than the previous ones. By no means, I am not offending for those of you that are skinny. Nothing about being skinny is bad, but the fact that other than skinny is considered bad. We all know that being overweight is bad as in health problems but I am not here to talk about it. People judge others by their appearance and does not realize that they are not benefiting themselves. Sure you can make fun of someone and feel good about it but really step in people’s shoes and realize what if feels like to be teased everyday.
My parents always tells me that I am fat, It brought me down so much that it lowered my self esteem. I would cry myself to sleep knowing that I will never be beautiful compared to other girls. It affected me so much that I would starve for the rest of the day and only have something to drink. It was a crazy path until something in me changed. I realized that every skinny girl is referred as beautiful. Is it their appearance that is beautiful? Someone can be beautiful on the outside and ugly in the inside. Someone can be ugly in the outside and beautiful in the inside. Why don’t we ever give credit for those who are lets say not skinny?.Someone can say.”Whoa! Look at that chick she has nice....” Yeah you get the point but what do they say to a non-skinny girl? Nothing except negativity. What this whole post is about is to explain what I meant about skinny girls being referred to as pretty. Last time, I am not offending anyone in any way. I really can believe I wrote about my situation... Overall, I learned to love myself to who I am because no matter how much judgement I receive from people I know that someone likes/loves me for who I am.
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Christy ! [:
I responded to this
http://itsashli.blogspot.com/2010/12/response-to-definition-of-beautiful.html
I commented on your blog!
http://melissamasstuff.blogspot.com/2010/12/response-to-christys-post-definition-of.html
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